You’re a size 2.  Nope a size 12.  How about a size 22?  Regardless of your size and shape there’s one thing that every woman should understand and execute every time she leaves the house.  Accessorize.  An accessory is defined as an article or set of articles of dress such gloves, earrings, scarves and the like that adds completeness, convenience or attractiveness to one’s basic outfit.

It’s those little touches, that make all the difference when you enter a room.  The accessories we choose or neglect to choose can be the difference between looking put together or looking disheveled.  Accessorizing is also a cost effective way to reuse an outfit in a completely new way.  If you need a new outfit for a special gathering but the cash isn’t there, consider busing new costume jewelry or a new scarf rather than a brand new little black dress.  You’ll save money and can create a whole new look.

If you’re like me and happen to be a curvy gal, accessorizing must be done with care.  Shopping for accessories hasn’t always been easy.  When I was a teenager, it seemed like rings were never big enough, bracelets never fit without adding extensions and scarves seemed to short to get that trendy draping look.

Today, (finally) designers have started paying attention to the plus size market.  Brands offer adjustable rings, flexible bracelets and necklaces with built in extensions. In addition to jewelry, handbag manufacturers have extended their straps to fit across larger bodies comfortably.  My favorite accessory isn’t a hat or even a piece of jewelry, like many women it’s shoes.  Today’s styles are often narrow at the toe or have a ballet slipper cut that can cause painful foot issues.

So what is the perfect accessory in my opinion?  The perfect accessory is something that you take with you everywhere, it goes with every outfit and you’ve had it since the day you were born.  What’s more?  It’s free.  So before you leave for that important meeting, holiday party or hot date, be sure to put on your smile.  It’s your best accessory and fits you perfectly.